Don't even bother thinking about what others think, darling.

People have mouths.  People talk.  People gossip and speak sh*t about others. People have thoughts. People have opinions. People judge. 

If you don't give a sh*t about what people think, i'd like you to continue on this road and you can exit the reading of this page. 

But, if you feel like you do give a sh*t about what people think, I suggest you to read until the end. 

These words are written by a certified people pleaser, a.k.a me. 

I'll start off with a simple relatable situation, that can be experienced by both genders, wether you are a boy or a girl : 

You stand up from bed, you go to your closet, you spot a very comfy tee-shirt that you like, or a comfy pair of sweatpants, or a beautiful dress, you're like "well that's good I wanna wear it" but then you remember : you have school. You'll meet your friends. People will see you. You decide to dump that clothing that you really are into and wanted to genuinely wear, for the last trendy nike tech or whatever that is, because everyone is wearing it, it's trendy and cool. 

Now you're sure that people won't be running their mouths behind your back. 

If you're that sure, that they won't be talking about you,  you have a problem. You clearly don't understand the human nature. 

People around you will ALWAYS find a flaw in you, they will always have some criticism, wether it is about your physique, the way you act, your clothing style, your mannerism, the way you walk, talk, even the way you eat and what you eat- 

There is 8 billion people on planet earth right ? 8 billion different individuals that are unique, that have their own taste, ideologies styles whatever.

If you try to fit their tastes, I assure you you'll go crazy and nuts, literally.

The only soul you should be pleasing is yourself. Because, at the end of the road, it is you, yourself, your soul, your mind within your body. 

You will NEVER EVER fit the taste of everyone. 

Let me clear up something for you : if you keep thinking about what others think of you, you will be trapped in a hellish vicious cycle. 

Now don't get me wrong, this does not mean you will have to act rude and disrespect others, but simply taking off a weight off your shoulders, and living for yourself. 

Next time you want to wear something but you're not sure everyone will like it or it does not fit in today's trend, screw it, wear that clothing, "I like it, I feel comfy in it" kinda mindset. 

If someone talks about you, you can't go and shut their mouths or change the way they feel towards you, we live in a society where freedom of expression is everywhere, let them talk, don't care. Not the end of my world. 

Don't even bother what others think about you, darling.