Peaceful Voice

People have mouths.  People talk.  People gossip and speak sh*t about others. People have thoughts. People have opinions. People judge.  If you don't give a sh*t about what people think, i'd like you to continue on this road and you can exit the reading of this page.  But, if you feel like you do give a sh*t about what people think, I suggest you to read until the end.  These words are written by a certified people pleaser, a.k.a me.  I'll start off with a simple relatable situation, that can be experienced by both genders, wether you are a boy or a girl :  You stand up from bed, you go to your closet, you spot a very comfy tee-shirt that you like, or a comfy pair of sweatpants, or a beautiful dress, you're like "well that's good I wanna wear it" but then you remember : you have school. You'll meet your friends. People will see you. You decide to dump that clothing that you really are into and wanted to genuinely wear, for the last trendy nike tech or ...

  One of my biggest flaws, is that I get attached very easily, and I care way too much.  It's a big issue that I face in real life. Not that it is a bad thing all the time, it shows that I appreciate you and I care about you.  But sometimes, caring too much is detrimental to my mental health.  Let me fill you in with a simple situation I've had during my school year (one of the MANY situations i've encountered)  :  One time, a person started showing affection towards me, being very nice, hanging out with me, complimenting my style, my hair, laughing around, texting me, and it was a very weird situation, as never someone in my friend group showed me that much attention.  Within a night, that person became very important to me. I got attached within hours.  Eventually, that person started distancing themselves, our long talks became short, they obviously found other people to hangout with, and it made me feel like I was a little matter of days, just...

Daily, we keep hearing, seeing, and maybe saying this quote "never judge a book by it's cover".  But, take a little moment, and think : do you really live by this quote ? do you really apply it in your daily life ?  Appearance is a key factor in our modern world.  When you enter a room full of people, and observe your surroundings, based on people's appearance, mannerism, body language, you kind of feel, judge, and label those people in your subconscious.  For example, an elegant lady with a designer bag, impeccable clothing style, polished nails, nude pink coffin shaped, snatched waist, beautiful hair and makeup, your subconscious leads you to thinking this woman is living a comfy life, probably upper class, very important in society.  Whereas if you see another woman, basic clothing, tired features, kinda messy hair, you deduce that her situation is not as bright.  Judging is part of our human nature. But judging needs to come with a long process of think...