If I could possibly write a letter to a person who hurt me, what would I say ?

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If I could possibly write a letter to a person who hurt me, what would I say ? 

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Dear X, 


Why did I start the letter with dear, knowing that you have hurt me ? 

Don't even try to ask me, I don't really know either. 

I have the opportunity to write a letter to someone that did me wrong and hurt me deeply somewhere, sometime.


I have decided to seize the opportunity. 

I want to write for you this letter to clear all what's between us. 

Who knows, maybe in another life we could've been friends, or more than that. 


Maybe we have met at the wrong time and wrong moment. 


I am not going to lie to you, and I won't sugarcoat anything. 

When the deed was done, I probably cursed your entire existence, judged you, hated you deeply from my heart, talked shit behind your back with my trusted ones. 


I am a human, I hurt and cut with my words, and have utterly negative feelings. 

I can play it offensive while trying to defend myself. 


I can hate. 


But I can eventually learn how to forgive, and I can own up my mistakes. 


I am absolutely not afraid to apologize if I ever did YOU wrong. 


I can lose it too, as it is part of my human nature. 

If I am writing this letter, it is because one of the values that I've been taught, and the fact that I believe in second chances, in  certain situations like this. 


Only imbeciles are the ones that do not change their opinion or point of view. 


I don't think that you are an imbecile, right ? 


I don't want to die and bring to my grave all of this sticky situation, and I want to leave the bad blood to the past with memories that I hope I may forget. 


Let's turn the page, and respawn, just like a video game. 


I am aware that not everything can be forgotten, and my brain may flash me with the sour moments you made me go through, but with an open clear heart, and 0 weight on my conscience and soul I'll brush them off, and see you from another perspective. 


Peace, is all what I'm looking for. 


We may not be close afterwards, but all that matters is stabilizing our complicated relationship, and try to appreciate one another for what we are. 


Whenever you are ready. 



Peaceful voice. 


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