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The regret of the dead.

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  Losing someone is truly a horrible feeling that I would absolutely not wish to my worst enemies.  I lost this year, Wednesday June 7th, my grandad.  My grandad meant the world to me. We had a very tight bond, and wholesome relationship.  He saw me growing up. We shared so much memories together.  The first 3 years of my life, I lived in his house and he took care of me along with my grandma.  When I moved back at my parent’s house, I made sure to visit him often.  But the older I got, the more my visits became short, quick, and distant.  With all the classes I have,  extra hours with teachers, and tests, I could not find time I can spend with him. I took him for granted. I though he was eternal.  But he got older too. He fell sick.  He couldn’t walk anymore, eat alone, go to the bathroom, nothing.  He could still speak and express his frustration towards grandma, in a dark and funny way.  An Icon really.  A month be...

Maturity and age.

Does age impact our maturity level ?  We often hear, sometimes on a daily basis, our surroundings talk about ‘maturity’.  It is a very controversial concept in my opinion.  This ‘maturity’ is most of the times, connected to age.  It is sooo connected with age, that governments and societies think that when you turn a certain age, you become immediately more mature.  You, magically, get blessed with this wisdom. What is maturity ?  According to specialists, Maturity is a level of mental development or wisdom.  Level is a very funny way to put up maturity, and as a video game player, it got me thinking : If these specialists, think that the definition of maturity is simplified within the word ‘level’ then we all start at some point, and grind within the life lessons, in order  to achieve the final level and the desired results.  There is different types of gamers, ones that go steady and slow, and others that learn fast the shortcuts of the gam...