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Are teenagers today living an identity crisis...?

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  Are teenagers today living an identity crisis...?  Let me clarify something before starting : I am a teenager myself, and I am writing my point of view as a teen. I can assure you that all of us, are going through a phase, looking for ourselves and who we are, as a person.  We are living a transition period from childhood to adulthood.  Yesterday, we were only babies, and we were being guided by the older ones.  Tomorrow, we know we will be making our own decision and guide ourselves without supervision. We do not know what we are considered as, today. Some tell us : "come on man, you're too old for that, grow up!" And others tell us : "look at you, you are still a baby!" And oh lord, you can't imagine how much torn we feel at that moment. When you are a teenager, you manifest changes in your body, the way you think, act and also, your choices.  When you are a teenager, you want to experience life. It's like as if you were a puppy thrown in a jungle ca...

The word "perfect" ?

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  The word "perfect" ?  Our whole life, we were taught to be perfect . Our whole life, we were taught that the human being, is imperfect .  Our whole life, our surroundings were building on us expectations , and we eventually, wanted to achieve the best.  And what I mean by "best", is the absolute perfection. We all tried, to get the pefect exam scores.  We tried to be the perfect friends. We tried to be the perfect child our parents always wished for. We, maybe, made some people believe that we are that incarnated perfection. But, I assure you, we are absolutly not. Remember, we are that human being. And human beings are full of qualities, but also, flaws.  Even though you did not get the desired results wrote above, you, deep down, often think about perfection. After all, this word exists and was implanted in our daily lives. Perfection can be different in the eyes of various people. (That instagram model, that famous tik toker, that wealthy footballer,...

Learning to let go.... Is it that simple ?

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Learning to let go.... Is it that simple ?  We lose people.                                                                               We lose friendships.  We lose love.  We lose souls we thought would stay forever. But, does life stop having a meaning, at that moment ?  Does letting go, seem impossible ?  Does everything you built, seems crumbling down ?  Yes. It might.  It is hard to forget. You look around you and you see everything closing up on your face. You feel trapped in an endless loop, that you alone have the power to stop. But saddly, you are tied up within your lost feelings and emotions, and imprisonned inside your mind with your darkest thoughts.  You blame the world for being so cruel and taking away a person that you held dearly n...